16 Reasons Why She Won’t Date You- Even If She Loves You6 min read

Let’s say that you meet a girl that always smiles at you, always seems happy to see you, has told all her friends about you, but for some reason beyond your power of understanding she just won’t go out with you on a date. If this scenario sounds familiar then you may feel this woman is giving you mixed signals. The problem is: how do you manage the situation? She may love you, but not the same way you were thinking.

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The other issue is that maybe you didn’t show her that you want more than just a friendship. Believe it or not, women know what they want most of the time. You all just have never been taught the mind reading techniques that we expect you to have. Before wanting a girl, or to put yourself into a relationship, you must learn 3 essential tips.

3 Tips To Know Before You Go Into Any Type of Relationship!

If you are in a relationship right now or are thinking of going into one, there are 3 very important tips you should know and questions you should ask yourself before you ever get yourself into a relationship. This could save you from a lot of heartache and pain when you are involved in a love
relationship. 

1- Your lover does not owe you your happiness, peace or
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Happiness is a state of mind we choose to have. All of your happiness and all of your suffering are created by you and they do not come from outside of you, or from others. Before you go into any type of relationship, ask yourself these questions: “Do I really, really, really know how to walk
away from disappointment and fear?

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Will I be able to find the person that I am now even after I go into this relationship and begin a new way of life?” In short, you should not be dependent on your partner on your emotional needs. You yourself are responsible for your own feelings and creating positive experiences for both your partner and you whenever you are together.

2- Love your partner  for who they are. Click To Tweet

No one in this world is perfect. One day you will find your partner doing certain things or saying certain things that will hurt you, disappoint you or anger you. Before you go into any type of relationship, you have to ask yourself: “Will I be able to love my partner for who they are. If I am
unhappy or angry with something they have said or done, will I be able to recognize my unhappiness or anger as against their speech, actions, and behavior, and not against their persons?” 

3- Will I be able to love myself as much as I love my partner?

If you cannot love yourself, how are you going to give love to another? This is a mistake most people make when they go into a relationship. They become over-obsessive with what they can give to their partners and what they can do for their partners. To ensure a fulfilling relationship, you
have to learn to take care of your own needs as well.

A true partner or lover is one who will make sure that you do not become too dependent on them. You are responsible for your own feelings and your own emotional needs too. You are a beautiful being. So, take care of yourself, love yourself, treat yourself to all the good things in life too, and do the same to your partner. Very soon you will find true love always coming your way without any effort on your part!

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As always, if you are encountering problems in your relationship, try to dissolve all of your problems in love. And you’ll be sure you are on your way to a peaceful and fulfilling relationship!

She Loves You- But She Won’t Date -Here Is Why

1- You are her best friend and she doesn’t want to ruin the friendship with a relationship that may not work out.

Women analyze relationships to death. A good male friend is worth his weight in gold. We don’t want to lose a fantastic friendship for just another possible relationship.

Women analyze relationships to death. A good male friend is worth his weight in gold. We don't want to lose a fantastic friendship for just another possible relationship. Click To Tweet
2- She may think you are the greatest thing since sliced bread but you are not her usual type of guy. Some women love hanging out with nice guys, but for some indefinable reason prefer bad boys when they date.
3- A friend of hers really likes you so you are therefore off limits.
4- Many women today have other priorities that are taking first place before relationships. If she is working her way to the top she may not have the time to devote to a relationship. 
5- You want to make just any girl your girlfriend.
6- You get immediately nervous or needy when she doesn’t get back to you right away.
7- You’re willing to lower or compromise your standards.
8- You have zero ambition in your life.
9- You brag too much.
10- You don’t stick up for what you believe in.
11- You act too shy, nervous or seemingly uncomfortable around women or in social situations.
12- You’re easily embarrassed or deflated.
13- You have nothing interesting to talk about. Ever.
14- You don’t make girls laugh and have fun around you.
15- You’re always obviously trying to impress women.
16- She may really like you but really needs you to make the first move. Therefore her unique conservation instinct will tell her NOT to date you, while her heart will make her still show interest towards you.

What should you do when something like this happens?

1. Forget all about her for a while and start dating other girls. You will suddenly become a lot more interesting in her eyes because you will appear less available and therefore she will begin to wonder about what she might be missing out on.

2. Try to find out more about her feelings towards you from her friends, while talking about her at the same time. This way there will be an exchange of information and she will learn what you really feel from people she can trust. Yes, it sounds very high school, but if you do it in a subtle way it can be effective.

Relate: Move on let go the situation

3. By this time it would be a good idea to try asking her out again. Before doing this plan, everything in such a way that it will surprise her and pull her out of her routines. If you suffer another rejection… it’s time to move on and forget all about her. Someone else is waiting to receive your love.

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